Dear Joshua,

You are one of the most passionate little boys I have ever known! For most of your life so far it has been about all things train, your Grandpa Hamelin and sometimes even the hats that you wear, but I have a hunch that you will be just as passionate about other things as you grow and mature. Many of the strong qualities we have as children are carried with us into adulthood, and usually if our parents can survive the qualities that seem challenging while there children are little find that those same qualities are what make them amazing and productive adults. So don;'t be afraid to be passionate Josh, even if sometimes people question why. Someday you will make a big contribution to the world based on your passion!

You were born at a time when your parent's hearts were still freshly breaking from the loss of your older sister. Though one child can never "replace" another, your birth helped to begin to ease the pain a little, I think. You got lots of love and attention which every child needs but doesn't always get when you're #3.

I hope you will always be passionate about the church and that you will read the scriptures and pray to know for yourself that the church is true. Trust your parents and church leaders to love you and want the best for you. People who lead you down forbidden paths do not have your best interests at heart. When you hold the priesthood, follow the example of your father and your grandfathers. When you are old enough to date, treat the young women you date as you would want another young man to treat your sisters on a date. That is a pretty compelling guideline.

Just as we have some "bonus" grandchildren, your mother was our bonus child because she came in an unexpected way. When she accepted the gospel, she opened the door for you and all your siblings, as well as generations to come to have the gospel as well. I like to think that in the premortal existence you and your children and grandchildren were watching your mom and rejoicing as you watched her make that decision because you knew what a difference that one choice would make in her life and yours. We can always trust that Heavenly Father loves us and orchestrates our lives before and after our time here on earth. Know that you can always trust Him.

We love you Josh, and are so happy that you are part of our family.

Love,

Mama